We think love is about finding someone who completes us. Rilke thinks that is a disaster.
Our world moves at the speed of a click. Rilke’s world moved at the speed of sap rising in a tree. He writes: “Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart. Try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books written in a foreign tongue.” He tells Kappus that he is trying to answer questions too early. You cannot force the answers any more than you can force a tree to blossom in December. The task is not to find the solution tonight. The task is to live the question until you grow into the answer. cartas a un joven poeta rainer maria rilke
So, if you are a young poet—or simply a young human—put down the phone tonight. Pick up this tiny blue book. And let Rilke walk you home to yourself. We think love is about finding someone who completes us
What Rilke Knew About Loneliness (That We’ve Forgotten) Rilke’s world moved at the speed of sap rising in a tree
Written between 1903 and 1908, these ten letters are not really about poetry. They are about how to live.