But for those willing to surrender to its humid, moth-dusted atmosphere, it is a profound masterpiece. It is a film about how love is a performance, how devotion requires labor, and how the most intimate act in the world is not sex, but asking your partner to truly understand what you need—even when what you need is to be punished for forgetting to wash the floors.
If there is a flaw, it is that the film’s deliberate pacing can sometimes feel like a test of endurance. The repetition is the point—showing the monotonous, unsexy reality of scheduling your kinks—but around the 60-minute mark, the film’s small runtime starts to feel longer than it is.
Director: Peter Strickland Starring: Sidse Babett Knudsen, Chiara D'Anna Rating: ★★★★☆ (4/5)
Yes, you read that correctly. For a film entirely about a sadomasochistic relationship, there is almost no nudity. Strickland understands that the waiting and the ritual are the turn-ons, not the act itself. He eroticizes the tension, the power exchange, and the vulnerability of asking your partner to hurt you.
Furthermore, the complete absence of men, cars, or modern technology (the time period is intentionally vague) creates a dreamlike bubble. While this is beautiful, it occasionally robs the relationship of any external stakes. The only drama is internal.
The twist is that Evelyn is the one writing the daily script. She is the dominant partner in the relationship demanding to be subjugated. The Duke of Burgundy is a film about the exhausting, beautiful, and often heartbreaking logistics of a long-term BDSM relationship—but one that feels less like Fifty Shades of Grey and more like a lost, erotic Ingmar Bergman film.